How to make him come to me?

hello ANGEL, Thankss alot for your help. What you said he is so important that i'm going to really think about it. Thanks alot again you made me realise many things :)

pav its rly gud to hear bout u right now im writin with phone becuz my computer broke. things are changed but things arent as i want. he texted me he asked how i was doin i said i got a bad cold he was like ' oh dam dat cold is botherib my hunny' i was like well im not a baby he he was like ur my baby n just mine then he added i thought u text all dat time i said i thought same, he said 'i rly wanted to but i had to stop myself n suffer to realise how much i love u' but my fam needed me so i texted him later, he tried to be cool with me n i didnt question him. he told me he loves me but i didnt say nun. his friend told me again he said he cant see me when he wants is his problem. becuz him and me just see each other at school n school party. my parents dont allow me to go out n all. me n him never kissed since we r together. he said thats his biggest problem. his friend said dat i will lose him if we keep on like this. but i feel like after kissing ,huggin me,even makin love to me, he

i feel like after it he wont really need me no more and he'll start dissing me. but at time i wanna give him all he needs but my parents wont let me go out either will allow me to go with boys. what to do? and at time i feel like its all my fault because i dont give him even not a kiss. -sigh

Anytime Mina...anytime, m glad i cud help... but pls wat u have written after that is crazy...u dnt have to get physical to kip him wid u... its not called sex mina, its called making love...that needs to be done wid d one whom u love and its so sacred and special, and i dont think this guy wud need that...the lines are very clear...he's asking wat he wants...now think and decide...All the best gal....tc

Hey Mina,
U typed a lot using your phone! That's great longest msg i ever read!! :) anyways Mina,
I though you are concentrating on ur career and spending time with your family but, u seem to b bit lost in love again... I dont understand why your boyfriend is so confused to be with you, is he too blind to see your love?

It looks like your parents are very strict right? Believe me mina they will be crushed n be very upset on you, if they come to know if u ever kissed or made love, i agree with "Angle". You dont have to go through physical contact to prove your love or to make him to be with you. Of course i completely understand, when u say, u are not giving him enough a kiss or a hug ..... yes hug can be comforting sometimes, love needs it.

Their is no right and wrong in love Mina. All you need to do is follow these points, 1) What ever risk you take for him is he, worthy enough? 2)Always respect your parents and their views abt love 3) When you present a guy be

conti..... 3) When you present a guy before your parents as ur bf/lover he must be really worthy enough and you must be CONFIDENT on him than any one in this world!(Seriously, are you confident on him?..i don't think so)
Mina take time and think, if you feel like kissing or hugging as a mark of your love i guess is ok . But if you want to kiss or hug just because u fear he will leave you or if u kiss him he will stay with you, then NO NO NO NEVER DO THAT.

Lastly, No its not your fault. Your are doing well. :)

Angel, im just scared..When i read what you said , i understand he doesnt need me physically to love me right? but his friends have been telling me that i'll lose him if we don't see each other and if everytime we are on phone and stuff... idunno but at time it likes i dont have the choice n it's like they're threating me in another way , like if they ordering me things

girl why u hurtin ya head ova him he does not deserve u because u have been there 4 him wen he was doin wat he had 2.
move on find another an u will get ova it im sure i was in sumting like dat an i got ova him it will kill u 2 move on but u hav 2 in order 2 find a better person 4 u. he is not rite 4 u the rite 1 is waitin dont call him bac cus he will do it again.move on an life will get better bye!

8z da sam goin on vit me... In mi point of view i shuld sae 2nt cal oa msg hm unlst he does... F he realy luvs u dn he'l surely cal u up... N ya his nt da oly guy on earth show him our girls power ignore hm n go on ua lyf vit an othr guy shw hm dat u can b hapy vit ot hm... :-)

Pav, i think he will just never change...we'll just never stop argueing...its going worst, even 5hours ago we were argueing on phone..He wasnt like that when i met him, he was such a sweet nd romantic boy .I think he's revolted now nd getting mad at me by his friends..Since his friends tell him that he aint in a gud relation because he cant even touch his gf, he cant even hug her and stuff, that he should go and get a girl that he could touch and sex with her (they said it like this), so whatever i do, he just get angry and feel like he yelling at me on phone..Saying i always wanna be right in all we do, that i dont like to be wrong. Saying he'll call me later and till now he didn’t call me and he sent me a text, here’s the text “ Hi My Spark, tonight I want u to sleep fully to get better tomorrow as theres school, Gud night I love u “… when I saw it I tried to call him 4 times to say just gud night I love u on da phone wid my voice he didn’t answer my calls at all..its jus

Pav, i think he will just never change...we'll just never stop argueing...its going worst, even 5hours ago we were argueing on phone..He wasnt like that when i met him, he was such a sweet nd romantic boy .I think he's revolted now nd getting mad at me by his friends..Since his friends tell him that he aint in a gud relation because he cant even touch his gf, he cant even hug her and stuff, that he should go and get a girl that he could touch and sex with her (they said it like this), so whatever i do, he just get angry and feel like he yelling at me on phone..Saying i always wanna be right in all we do, that i dont like to be wrong. Saying he'll call me later and till now he didn’t call me and he sent me a text, here’s the text “ **Hi My Spark, tonight I want u to sleep fully to get better tomorrow as theres school, Gud night I love u **“… when I saw it I tried to call him 4 times to say just gud night I love u on da phone wid my voice he didn’t answer my calls at all..

..its just too much for me..sometimes i decide to stop answering his calls or to stop texting him but as soon as i see his name on my phone screen, i just answer the call , its like im crazy bout him, its like i cant go with out him a day..its like he has my heart and he plays it like a ball nd it hurts so bad..i rly wanna forget him , and tomorrow is our school i guess he will be there nd ill fall back into this pain..sometimes i forgot all the pain he did to me in the past when i hear just his voice and when i meet him i forget all i wanna tell him about my pain.

Thanks alot Larissa..i rly know he doesnt deserve me sometime but it's just like its so hard to let it go, i luv him a lil bit too much than wat he deserves...It is so hard ! but i promise u i'll try :)

Angel brokn heart , thanks for your advice, you're right saying he's not the only boy on earth but you see it's so hard to forget and i'm so scared to be thru pain , i'm so scared to have to suffer just to forget him and i think that's why i'm keeping him because i'm affraid to suffer more and more...but i try every day but it's just that he knows how to flatter me and makes me forget all that..he just has the gud word to make my heart happy nd got the bad way to hurt him...

Mina, I guess i must join your school and help you come out of this Mess.....,
Get one thing straight dear,No matter you guys fight, no matter if u guys kiss or dont kiss no matter wt his friends say....and no matter wt people in this web-site advice, the truth is ...you love him somuch and you will love him until you die and thats never gona change!

Mina, he might be angry on you now for being "Miss.Right" but, believe me a day would come when he will respect you and admire you for rest of his life, ans sorry to say but your boyfriend needs to grow up! get little matured u know what i mean..
One more thing Mina, even if you break up with this guy, he will always be in some corner of your heart forever.

Mina **dont forget you both are in school, life is still at a start, once u come out for job phase believe me everything will change ur concentration will be on how to survive in this world! **

Dear, you are weak, its not ur fault its just love. &qu