How to make him come to me?

and to answer ur other question" this story isnt worthy " but i luv him n im scared 2 suffer more if i leave him. But sometime i imagine my life with him and his sweet side n i like it but as soon as i add his bad attitude i answer myself «no no im not seeing myself doing my whole life with this cheater,my children wont forgive me it if i do it»,ima think abt my career more as u said. I had fun n tried love test on here and they said between my bf n this girl its AFFAIR n between me n him its LOVE. Its almost made me think hes honest wit me when he said he luv her as anybody. He told me he nevr cheated on me which depend on how he means cheat.n this love test evn make me believe wen he said he doesnt wanna lose me PS: he repeated it like 8times dat nite. Do u think he's honest? btw, he travelled for 2weeks n itsnt easy 2 join his fone wen i call him. Bcuz durin da whole travel,he called me evrytime da car stop. I missed his lastcall like 30min ago n i wanted 2 call bac but

Hi Mina,

Firstly Ignore that girl...completely.

I feel one month is a lot of time, usually its a day or two or just a week.but, its up to u.

Dont u ever beleve these LOVE TEST.....its a complete dust!!!!! :)

In ur next reply i would like to see you talking more positive things.. happening in ur love life, and also bit more abt ur present career wt do u do n wt u wanna do... wts up with canada plan.... just casually :) u can write to me at [email protected]

Anyways, its good to know everything is working fine with u n ur bf.... dont expect more n more attention from him, keep very less expectation then only u will b happy. dont stress urself..n dont stress him out. ok :)
tc.

well thanks alot Pav, i woke up in a good mood today bcuz i decided to ignore n stop stressing. Im feeling rly good. He called me this morning, i had to go to school so i told him to call later, he said " i love u so much" n i answered "me too" but nun cant rly be ok with this boy. I heard from dat girl n her bestie dat he called dat girl bestie this morning to tell her he called dat girl n she didnt answer so he msged her. I was all mad and im wondering if i should let him know dat i kno wat he did or i should just stay cool n give time? But right now im not mad. N thanks for ur email. N ill write u there to talk bout career n life

Hey Mina...

Yes stay cool and give time....

Though you know some things abt him, n wt he does behind you, its better to observe and b calm, right time will come one day, to confront him.

Its know harm , everything as a explanation, he might have his reason to call her or anybody. So, y take unnecessary stress.?? right ..

just take care...

Oh Pav, well I'm going to be calm as u said well till he comes back. He told me he is going for a month there and I guess he will have time to think a lot. He promised this morning he will call me this afternoon at 1p.m but now it's 8p.m and no calls yet. I tried to call him but it's nit able to call him. I think he has a connection fine problem, well if it gonna keep on like this for a month wow I'll miss him. Lol. Sometimes I feel fine but as soon as I think to what he did this morning I get sad. But I'm so much beter than before. A friend told me if I want him to end with the other girl is to tell him that he can't leave that girl, then he gotta forget about me nd she says to ignore him for a week n he will come back if he loves me. Well she said to do it after the month bcuz he travelled bcuz it's his dad's death anniversary.

Looks like all is well.... :)

Hey still u r stressing for small things like he must call u on time n all....relax ok :)

Yep i agree with your friends advice....

I guess you dont need any more advice ....:) U r doing well... from now, i wish you could get busy with ur family or friends..n studies .... :)

Takecare Mina...it was nice knowing you...n i am happy for you. All the best!

i think u shud just gather ur courage n tell him how u feel n tell him that wat he did is wrong n if he doesnt c it then he doesnt deserve ur love.let him kno that he just lost the one girl that will always love him but not anymore :) good luck u deserve better love go for it

Thankss a lot Pav, yes I'm doing well from now cause of your help :) . I'm going to focus on studies and family from now. And I hope after 1month if things goes bad, I hope I can count on you Pav.Maybe I'll be writing you on your email or onhere to give u some news about me.Thanks again for all :)

Tracy, thanks a lot and as you said I'll gather my courage first to tell him how much he hurts me and how I'm not going to take it. Thanks a lot Tracy