Ok. There's a girl I like, a lot. We're both quite shy, we can hardly speak to each other with people around. We went out for a week but she ended it, she feels bad about it, we discussed it, she admitted she was wrong, now we want to try again. One night I was angry, said some stuff I shouldn't and she's now holding a small grudge. I've apologised more times than I can say. She said we should go out again but when asked she said she doesn't want to hurt me, I'm not sure she really has a reason not to but doesn't want to. Can anyone help give some advice on the next steps I should take?
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12 years ago
first make sure she is worth it, then prove to her that if your with her, you won't hurt her. and ask her what she really thinks of you, and if she responds honestly she does like you,
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12 years ago
It seems she still is upset...you need to give her space let her decide what she's going to do. Although you have apologised it sometimes is hard to forgive even though we have accepted the apology.I would then be her friend, let her feel safe around you, joke around make her feel like you aren't pushing her and as she warms up to you and feels like she's over everything you have said you can try and rebuild the relationship. I think she loves you very much and is more afraid of messing your relationship up again. Good Luck! And remember if it is easy to argue and fight in a relationship you arent supposed to be together. You have to be able to see if it is or isn't going to work. We all can learn from mistakes....but i hope you do get back together as it seems you also love her a lot.
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12 years ago
Thank you ;-) This has been really helpful.
