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Hi! My trainer is very attractive.  When his colleague saw me training with him, she said that she was involved with him during her marital issues.  Also that he was a womanizer.  I've been training with him for a month and find him to be intelligent, disciplined, and philosophical.  We share same views when it come to spirituality.
He's done a few things that has been questionable and I'm uncertain on how to interpret.  He's always complimenting me and saying that i listen and make the training sessions much easier.  One time he even said- that's my girl, to me.  There was a day that i showed up to work out but he didn't out of confusion with his schedule.  He was deeply sorry and wanted To make up it and gave me 5 free personal training sessions.  He text me once referring to me as sugar foots.   Today he asked me what did i have planned for the weekend.  There was a time where i didnt want to leave my bag unattended and he said not to worry becuz if someone would even dare to touch it, he would have to fight.  I chuckled and said aww! You're protective over me... i meant my belongings.  He replied with a straight face and said Both.

We had another conversation about him being wacky....just joking since i was trying to get  through the workout quickly.  He said i think i can be sometimes.  I responded and said if that is the case that i'm not going to train with you. He replied i will open my own gym so that you will.

I haven't never responded to any of these situations as i wasnt sure if he was just being nice and have a generous heart or if he is trying to let me know that he is interested in me.  I am a single mom and desire a life partner.  I see a few qualities that i do like about him. I am extremely physically attractive and sometime lust over him but i am trying my best not to lose focus with my fitness goal. I would love to get to date but am not sure what to do.  Should i wait till i have reached my fitness goals, then show interest?  That could well be in 6 months.  Any advice on how to view and this situation or find out what his motives are?

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