i hd a relaton for two year n then she broke up wit me coz she liked another guy...n nw after 3years she is back in my contact n nw she single..bt i love her sooooo much.bt when i proposed her she said she dnt want to be in relation..n nw after 1 year of r contact she is so caring for me.shes like dnt do this dnt do dat..we talk daily 4 hours of a day and full day chat..bt when i talk abt relation she says no..
so guys just tell me wat shuld i do n i cnt live without her i just want her in my future wit me..
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12 years ago
Hey Nik
i am happy for you that she came back to you bro:)
Here the point to see is, Why did she broke up with u earlier? what went wrong? she is just taking break from her ex? or she is completely broke up with her boyfriend? did you find out the reason? did she broke up with her bf just to be with u??? have answeres tto these q's nik.
You must be very careful before u think of relationship with her. You will be badly hurt again.If i am not wrong, I think she is just seeking comfort with u, but she is still in love with her boyfriend, she might chat with u n takecare of u, but dont get me wrong , she is just spending time with you to get over the break up...... deep in her heart she might be still having thoughts for him.
HERE IS WHAT YOU MUST DO......
1) Know the reason why she broke up? (was it just a mutual understanding break up or a big bad fight break up)
2) Do not ask her straight forward but you must find out through random questions or some signs...wht -
12 years ago
conti ...
2) Do not ask her straight forward but you must find out through random questions or some signs...wht does she think of her bf now?
3) YOU MUST give her lot of time before you ask her out, or confess ur love... (dont be tooooo early or dont be too late either)
4)YOU MUST make sure of urself can u accept her now? because believe me, she will have him in some corner if her heart.. (r u ok with that?)
5.She might sometimes end up comparing u to him....or subconsciously u might compare yourself to him.....DONT DO THAT! (because u wanna impress more then him to make her be with u)There might be chance she might go back to him....so dont get into full expectations until u r sure she is in love with u.
please read the points at least twice. :)
YOU should have lots n lots of patience to make this relationship work.
Now, make up your mind bro ....... good luck..
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12 years ago
hey pav..
i asked her y she brokup wit her boyfrd..she tld me tat she was nt felling to be in relation tat time n nw 3 days became she doesnt talk wit me properly mens she talks rudely..n came to nw frm her frds tat from three days she talks wit her ex boy frd..so wat should i do nw..
n pav i cnt leave witouther..n i dnt wnt to lose her again..plz plz plz help me. -
12 years ago
BROTHER THERE ARE MILLIONS OF GIRLS AROUND THE WORLD, THAT GIRL DOESN'T SEEM TO BE A STABLE MINDED ONE , IF SHE FEELS BORING HE WILL LEAVE YOU AGAIN AND CATCHES SOMEONE ELSE(OR MAY BE WITH THE WHOM SHE BROKE UP NOW), AND MORE OVER IF U ACCEPT HER , SHE WILL DARE TO DITCH YOU AGAIN THINKING THAT YOU ARE OF NO VALUE SO THAT SHE CAN GET BACK WHEN SHE FEELS BORING. BRO ITS YOUR CHANCE USE HER TO YOUR MAXIMUM ( POSSIBLE FUCK HER) THEN NOW YOU DITCH HER, PLS DONT BE EMOTIONAL WITH THAT GIRL, SHE IS USING YOU FOR HER PAIN.SHOW HER WHOM BOYS ARE.
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12 years ago
BROTHER THERE ARE MILLIONS OF GIRLS AROUND THE WORLD, THAT GIRL DOESN'T SEEM TO BE A STABLE MINDED ONE , IF SHE FEELS BORING SHE WILL LEAVE YOU AGAIN AND CATCHES SOMEONE ELSE(OR MAY BE WITH THE WHOM SHE BROKE UP NOW), AND MORE OVER IF U ACCEPT HER , SHE WILL DARE TO DITCH YOU AGAIN THINKING THAT YOU ARE OF NO VALUE SO THAT SHE CAN GET BACK WHEN SHE FEELS BORING. BRO ITS YOUR CHANCE USE HER TO YOUR MAXIMUM ( POSSIBLE FUCK HER) THEN NOW YOU DITCH HER, PLS DONT BE EMOTIONAL WITH THAT GIRL, SHE IS USING YOU FOR HER PAIN.SHOW HER WHOM BOYS ARE.
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12 years ago
hey Nik,
U seem to be deeply lost in love with her. Wake up Nik, dont push urself into nightmare of being with her. You said ** "she is so caring for me"**
and now you are saying "she doesnt talk wit me properly mens she talks rudely" dont you see the diff?Nik dont forget love is followed by marriage, "love only u n ur gf are involved but in marriage its your whole family n her whole family is involved" .... R you confident that u r choosing the right girl?
Dont be selfish saying i cant live without her...... believe me, if she does not accept ur relationship, you must move on ....plz dont beg her....you will loose your self respect, n probably she will not respect you anymore....and by the way girls never liked or loved crying and boring boys.... instead you stop talking to her... keep your foot down.
See it like this:- most of the girls are chasers; if you keep on chasing them they never like you...but if you stop chasing them
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12 years ago
Conti....
..but if you stop chasing them they will turn around and notice you....
Dude, I personally feel you will never be happy with this girl ..why do u wanna waste ur life? u will REGRET bro!
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12 years ago
hey pav..
tell me one ting shuld i stop talking to her then she vl understand me or i shuld keep on talking..
last nyt i was just mesging her bt she didnt replyied..then at last she replyed tat she was buzy n was nt felling to talking to any one.
i was so deeply hurt bt didnt said her any ting...so pav tell me wat shuld i do to get her back.
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12 years ago
hey navin..
i cnt tink to have sex wit tat girl coz i dnt want to spoil her lyf..
haa if in her place sum other girl would be ther na tat time i wnt leave her without having sex.
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12 years ago
reply me pav..
wat should i do...to get noticed.
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12 years ago
Hey Nik,
I feel sorry for u mate.
U r Tangled! I wish you would come out of ur "world", which is obviously filled with love for her....
Firstly, wake up and be normal, stop moaning for her.
Secondly, Refresh urself, get busy, She must realize u r not just a crying boy .... but a responsible man!
Thirdly, Do keep in touch with her, but dont expect more from her, wt ever she replies or wt ever time she gets to spend with you, respect that...always end the conversation with ...with positive attitude... (dont scare her away by constantly proposing to her....she will never talk to u, instead she might find another friend who can just talk to her without proposing n annoying her for love/relationship)Nik, by changing urself into "happy go smiley boy" u wont loose anything..right? at the end of the day she might come back to u, if she does not ...still no worries.... atleast u r changd for good.
by the way, " If a girl comes out of relations
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12 years ago
conti....
by the way, " If a girl comes out of relationship she needs a long time, n she will love the ex- no matter what"
If she comes to u ....she will love you....but if u make her or if u force her to come to you ...she will love her ex more than she loves you.....its a fact!!!!!
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12 years ago
talk to her but as frnd only.. and don't think abt her... if she saying no to come in relationship tht it may b she looking for a forever relationship.. forever to secure her future etc etc..
but what main thing for u is whnever u talk to her talk her as frnd.. remeber she dumped u for anothr guy.. how can u b sure she ll not do it again.. bro if some1 can cheat 1 time , thn thy fuck ur ass again..