love or frienship

i didn,t see my girlfrd .bt i msg 2yr,,only chatting ..she ask 'enne unaku pidikuma' i replied 'romba pidikum' suddenly she ask...'appa nama marriage pandikalama'..i didn't reply anything... she replies this is joke ..so i think she intrested to marri me...two month after i proposed her..she was not accept my love ..then we continue frienship...guys this is love or frienship....pls give a suggestion..