I'm confuse whether he will let go me because of his family. He said that he can't lose his family just because of me. After 2 years of appealing and arguements, my family has shown green light to my relationship. He suppose to discuss with his family and let me know their opinion. For the past 2 weeks he has been keeping slient with me without any contact. He has promised me earlier no matter what happen he will marry me. However each time when he has problem with his family he will just leave me hanging alone without any information. I will try to keep patience but that won't last long and i will try to contact him and ask for a discussion. He will come but as usual after listening to him, i will feel sorry and accept his apologies and he will promise he won't repeat it anymore. However such situation never end. Now it repeated again, but at this time until now i did not approach him yet. I tried to keep silent to wait how long will he go. But i'm worried if my silent will never give a positive result. He is the type who can stay long without any contact with me. I'm just worried if my family asked me about our future plan or ask anything about him at this time. How could i tell them the problem that I'm going through now. I really don't know what should I do about him. I can't live without him but he concern to much about his family and saying that the family worries I would take him away from them. I never have such thinking in myself. We have fall in love for about 7 years and 2 years ago we let know our family about our relationship and plan to get married. That was when the war started and i have gone through many sour incidents with my mum and my siblings until the stage i don't mind to lose them for him. After 2 years last month my sister told me that all of them agreed with my decision and ask his family to come and talk with mine. Since i told this, his reaction was not that good. He replied that he will talk to his family during the Diwali festival 2 weeks ago. Since the festival he gone missing from me. I know he still here cause we work in the same place and stay in the same town area. Only that we can't see each other. I missed him alot at this time. However I don't know what is the way to move forward in this matter. I'm tired of crying..
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11 years ago
See sister just give him some time and space, sure he will come back.