Influenced by friends


10 years ago

I want to date this guy, but I'm afraid my friends will make fun of me. I have never dated and I'm afraid that my friends will say hurtful comments about me or gossip to other people. I am really close to his guy friends and I know that they are going to tease me and tell everyone. I want it to be a normal relationship with no "friend drama" and without the whole entire school knowing.

  • Mae
    10 years ago

    I know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend is also my friend and everyone was teasing us about how we should go out before we started to go out so when he asked me out we decided to only tell a few people and tell them not to tell anyone. A bit drastic maybe but so far its working, we've been going out for two months now and the teasing hasn't gotten worse. I hope this helps-Mae

  • 10 years ago

    go to the bathroom, grab a coke, and watch some oprah, you will know what to do after relaxing in a comfy lounge chair and getting your groove on.

  • 10 years ago

    Who cares about drama? ignore the teasing. if he makes u happy you shouldnt not date him because your scared of what other people will say. Just do what makes u happy gurl. go with the flow

  • 10 years ago

    Just go and express your feeling to him. I am telling because I have great experience. Don't ever bother that what others think. Just do as you wish not your friends. Don't get sad even if he rejects just continue it.