I think I'm in love with my best friend


10 years ago

I just started university this year and during my first year, I met a guy, but in the beginning we didn't even talk to each other. We just greeted each other in a friendly way. As time passed, by the beginning of the year 2014 we became really close and started to know each other better. In the beginning, everything was so beautiful. We joked with each other and everything was so fine. I was happy every day. I thought I was in love with him and I also believed that he liked me. But after some time, everything changed. We started arguing and I felt like he was playing with me. Now we are in good terms because I made it through those difficult times and I made a blind eye for everything that he said to me. Now I am almost sure that we can be nothing but friends. But I would like to know if you have any idea why he was the first one who got close to me. He was the one who talked first and the one who started to be interested in me. So that's what I need to know. Do you have any idea??? Also I believe that he liked me more than a friend in the beginning, but as time passed by he changed. Also now he is in a relationship with another girl. I would appreaciate any kind advice from you. Even if it's just an opinion for my situation, please tell me. I will be very grateful. Thanks!!! :D :D :D

  • 10 years ago

    Ya u taught he may also loving u but first u would av asked him k but dont worry i also felt with a girl same thing .you will get a boy how care more for then himself gud luck

  • 10 years ago

    Its a good thing you realize things were not to be at the early stage before any commitment .. Some men do their thing in a strange way.. If he actually liked you from the start then things would not have changed. he may have a sexual likeness towards you or just have this attitude of doing things you might think he's interested in you. My Advice would be to be more focus than usual when the right man comes knocking... you never know when. and he will not change under a few months of expression. best of luck. John Kent

  • 10 years ago

    Hm. Ideally, you should ask for the truth from him and after that you can move on. You have to get that truth straiht from him coz if you dont youll just keepgping back and forth. :)