What should you do when your in a relationship with someone you care a lot for, but the person you've liked for a long time asks you out, and you wanna say yes but you don't wanna hurt the person you are in a relationship with?
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12 years ago
I think this must happen a lot. It's really difficult but you have to go with your heart, it's likely you're going through your mind over and over about how to sort it out but the problem is other people always seem to mess these ideas up. Don't put both of the people in a bad mood though because neither will want to go out with you. I know it's tough but only you know the merits of each person, so base it on that. Hope this has helped. ;-)
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12 years ago
itx very difficult question but i think i chose with whom i have relation bcox i know i love with whom i have relation.....;)
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12 years ago
It's sad but would you rather be happy and in love or in a relationship because you are afraid of hurting the other person? It sounds like you are not just scared of hurting your bf but afraid of change. Afraid he may not be everything you hoped, or you don't love him, or it doesn't work out. If you turn him down he will be a massive 'what if' in you life, If you dump your bf and go out with this other guy you are risking a lot, but isn't that what loves about taking risks to find a person who will love you and you can love back? Good Luck! weegirl xxxx
