Am I a mistress? :(

Hi Gee...

Holy moly u r in a pickle right now!

How can you do this to urself and to the other girl? dont u feel guilty? , wt if he does the same with you? may be he would sleep with other girl while he is sweet with you, will be ok with that? !

Ask him to clear his head and ask him to choose whom he wants to be with, sometimes people do fall for other person though have gf/bf. but, cheating is bad....if he can sleep with u, then he can sleep with others too in future....
GEt ur act together, save urself dont let him cheat. if u want him to be with u....then ask him to leave the other girl!

or else u will end up being MISTRESS!

Tc,
Pav

Hi Gee...

Holy moly u r in a pickle right now!

How can you do this to urself and to the other girl? dont u feel guilty? , wt if he does the same with you? may be he would sleep with other girl while he is sweet with you, will be ok with that? !

Ask him to clear his head and ask him to choose whom he wants to be with, sometimes people do fall for other person though have gf/bf. but, cheating is bad....if he can sleep with u, then he can sleep with others too in future....
GEt ur act together, save urself dont let him cheat. if u want him to be with u....then ask him to leave the other girl!

or else u will end up being MISTRESS!

Tc,
Pav

Hi, Pav..

That's what I am thinking right now, whether to confront him. My friends too, kept on saying that. But how can I confornt him when he is not even leaving words with me like he loves me or likes me. Only through his actions, which I can feel that he has feelings with me. You know, I am feeling the guilt,

Hi Gee...

Holy moly u r in a pickle right now!

How can you do this to urself and to the other girl? dont u feel guilty? , wt if he does the same with you? may be he would sleep with other girl while he is sweet with you, will be ok with that? !

Ask him to clear his head and ask him to choose whom he wants to be with, sometimes people do fall for other person though have gf/bf. but, cheating is bad....if he can sleep with u, then he can sleep with others too in future....
GEt ur act together, save urself dont let him cheat. if u want him to be with u....then ask him to leave the other girl!

or else u will end up being MISTRESS!

Tc,
Pav

Hi, Pav..

That's what I am thinking right now, whether to confront him. My friends too, kept on saying that. But how can I confornt him when he is not even leaving words with me like he loves me or likes me. Only through his actions, which I can feel that he has feelings with me. You know, I am feeling the

Hi, Pav..

That's what I am thinking right now, whether to confront him. My friends too, kept on saying that. But how can I confornt him when he is not even leaving words with me like he loves me or likes me. Only through his actions, which I can feel that he has feelings with me. You know, I am feeling the guilt, but as if I ahve no care at all because I love him and he is showing affections too :( I know it is bad, I definitely know :( Anyway, thank you for the reply :)

Pav, please disregard the two repplies. My mistake :)

HI Gee,
For Some people love comes easily,n some people try hard. but end of the day both succeed. But, in your case, Ur love/feelings are built on guilt and betrayal. So there are many chances that your feelings may feel good now. but in long term it will Fail. and all you will have is sadness, tears and confusion.
What do u mean, when u say.....
"I am feeling the guilt, but as if I ahve no care at all because I love him "

It shows that u r too blind to see the reality. Do you know what u r doing?You are giving ur self to a boy who does not even put forward his feeling for you! he, himself dont know does he love you are ur skin????

Let put a small test. Ask him to accept you with his heart. Dont accept to kiss him or touch him at all....for few days (love does not need constant sex).
watch his reaction ,when u turndown all the physical things between u guys.

If he likes you or loves you, he will agree to be with you, but if he likes your skin (onl

conti...

If he likes you or loves you, he will agree to be with you, but if he likes your skin (only) then he will get angry or upset at you.

Take it slow. dont be blind or you will never forgive urself , because its ur mistake if u allow him to cheat on other girl. and its ur mistake,if oneday he leaves you. because he never told you he loved you. Its ur mistake that u thought he loves you.

Dont let him hurt you!

Open ur eyes. and shut the kissess n hugs for a while!

Tc
Pav

hi ! i have a problem,. .my bf is changing.. like the way he text with me..
it seems that he have no time with me if we're not together.. he's playing online games.. and he has a friends on it like girls.. and the name of the girl is leh.. and i think he likes my bf,. .what shall i do ?? i want to stop him playing online games..please help me.. :'(

Hi,

Online games is a guy thing, " like guys cant stop girls from shopping , in the same way girls cant stop guys playing games" !!!

Just give him time he will rebounce back. dont worry. you will be alright but try to keep in touch with him.

Tc
Pav

Hi Pav..

And that's what I am afraid to happen :( That one day, he will leave me without a single word, because as what you have said, and what I have said too, he didn't left a word that letting me know he loves me. Hmm, I think, you were right. I will do what you have said, that I will sleep with him, but not touch, kiss, or hug at all. Let me see..

You know, I find it happy talking with you.. You helps me a lot. always.. Thank yuo so much :)

Hi Gee,

I am happy for you. As long as i can help you i will.

But, Remember your smile and your tears depend on ur actions and decisions .

So, be careful......

Tc,
Pav

Thank you so much, Pav :) I owe you a lot.

Hi Gee,

I hope everything thing is going good.... keep in touch...

Dont let him cheat yah... :) Be concern to yourself and the other girl.

Tc
Pav

I will, Pav.. Hay thank you so much.. I will do it right, even though it hurts, and it will hurts me a lot :(

Hi Gee,

I can understand it would hurt you, but you are taking right decision to keep him on the right track and not letting him to cheat on you and the other girl. (Sharing a boyfriend is bad ).....

Hurting now is less painful then latter!

Someday You will get someone who would love you more than him and also who belongs to you completely by heart and soul.

**Have courage go through the pain Gee...and you will be proud ofurself and more happier then ever :) **TRUST ME ON THAT :)****

Tc
Pav

hi ! i have a problem,. .my bf is changing.. like the way he text with me..
it seems that he have no time with me if we're not together.. he's playing online games.. and he has a friends on it like girls.. and the name of the girl is leh.. and i think he likes my bf,. .what shall i do ?? i want to stop him playing online games..please help me.. :'(

Hi Love adres,

I guess i replied already to you plz check..in the threds

Hi, Pav..

The time has come, it was already ended. :( But we didn't have the chance to talk, he even want to talk to me I think?

The gf caught us through text. I texted him and the gf was the one who's holding his cellphone..