help me plsssssss....

Hi Pranali,
Good for you that you got to know about his personal character before marriage. Its now upto you to make the choice. I have a couple of questions for you.

1) Can you live with a person who flirts with many girls and have sexual relationship with other girls?
2) Do you have the confidence in him that he would not continue with all this behaviour after marrying you? 3) If he continue these behaviours, can you accept those behaviours and continue to live with him?
4) Can you accept infidelity?

If he is in love with you truly, he would not be involving in any behaviours with other girls, is my view. I understand that breaking up a relationship which was alive for 3 yrs is hard. But its better than living the rest of your life with the person who is not worth it (in your point of view). And donot get into marriage just because your family and society know that you guys are in love for three years. if your decide that the reply for all my above questio

i agree with deep....don't marry him if all the foundations of a good relationship aren't there. If he really loved you he wouldn't be having sexual relationships with other people. Do you want to start a marriage on this fear that he may leave you? Or that you have to be unhappy to be happy? I think you should break it off and save yourself a lifetime of pain. Sorry. keep your head up! After all there is someone who will appreciate you and love you more than the world out there. good luck xxx

Don't be a volunteer to hang yourself:) its like:) think and take decision because ur saying that you are feeling insecure:). Then its better to drop here itself:)

thanku guys for reply me.... i agreed with u all bt there is a 1 problem he is everything for me ........ i cant leave without he :(...i will die without him.......

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Hi Pranali,
Good for you that you got to know about his personal character before marriage. Its now upto you to make the choice. I have a couple of questions for you.

1) Can you live with a person who flirts with many girls and have sexual relationship with other girls?
2) Do you have the confidence in him that he would not continue with all this behaviour after marrying you? 3) If he continue these behaviours, can you accept those behaviours and continue to live with him?
4) Can you accept infidelity?

If he is in love with you truly, he would not be involving in any behaviours with other girls, is my view. I understand that breaking up a relationship which was alive for 3 yrs is hard. But its better than living the rest of your life with the person who is not worth it (in your point of view). And donot get into marriage just because your family and society know that you guys are in love for three years. if your decide that the reply for all my above

If u want to say some thing to him cos u love alot n he also face many problem bout may be na cos every boy n girl loving each other family is first to face , yes for u is esey to told to yr family but men cannot he still wait sometime ok but u told him that u will come he home oneday u will no the reson why ok .

Pranali,
There is no point in me consoling you, if you dont accept the reality yourself. Practically anybody can survive in the absence of anyother person in life. What you need for YOUR survival is your life and nothing else. If you want to understand this truth after a long painful experiences, you can choose it. Or if you want to be smart and take another person's words and WAKE UP right away, you can choose this option. I hope you will choose to WAKE UP soon :) Good luck

Thank u deep..............................

pranali, you WILL NOT die without him. it might feel like that now, but in the long run you will see that breaking up with him will be better for you. if he cnt even keep his pants on when you're dating, then why would you think he would stop cheating if you get MARRIED?! if he truly loved you, he would not look at other women. it's time for you to accept that he is not the man for you. Good luck :)

U r welcome pranali :)

Deep

Many days of thinking I have decided that I could never trust on him and now i want to leave him. I get it now after coming to know right now he is afraid i will leave him. bt i think this is not right time to leave him because he is alone there & he will take tension for me....after six months when will he come back here then I'll tell him everything n i cant be with him :(... thank u all to helping me to make this decision.........

Pranali you dont take tension.i love u and i will give you free sex service

Pranali you dont take tension.i love u and i will give you free sex service

get hell outta here MR.
this is not the place to play nonsense.

Dear Pranali,
I think its time now for u to take care of your life and not to worry about giving tension to him. Sometime people do not even deserve this much of goodness :) from the other person, as a return for their unacceptable behaviors. Stop being dumb - and sorry for my rudeness here :) Cheers

Deep

m really dumb - i cant see him sad :( :( :( ....

shikha
hi ...plz dosto help me..i truly love somebody and he too loves me bt he dosest like to show that...earlier we use talk for hours bt ..nw many many days ..go bt he dont call... i dont understand wat to d0.i cant leave him,..!!!

You need to accept this! We are all so afraid of change! Have you eve seen the film EAT,PRAY,LOVE if not you need to. You need to know yourself and be confident within yourself before giving your heart to another person. It doesn't work. You should feel happy single as well as with someone else. You don't need a guy to feel wanted. You cant marry him on fear and not knowing yourself!!! Listen to me and deep! You need to accept it! Life is cruel but if you do marry him will you constantly be turning a blind eye to other affairs? Are you willing to be crushed by the one person you love the most and are loyal to? Or are you going to move on holding your head up high and admitting I don't know what's out there but I'm ready? I hope you realise a relationship is two people and it goes ok. I'm sorry to be so frank but Cinderella and happy endings don't always exist relationships and especially marriage although a joy...are a lot of work. Sorry. Weegirl xxx

Dear pranali.......move on with ur life just leave every thing and get on side of GOD the god u worship just do simran of ur god.....if u ahve trust in GURU GRANTH SAHIB....just do simran of WAHA GURU.WAHA GURU...wen u get time or wen ever ur free....u ill feel relax......try once....if u wanna more u can mail me on [email protected]

m really dumb - i cant see him sad :( :( :( ....

just worship god u trus upon..and think of ur mom dad.....if u commited some thing wrong wat they ill think......take care of them and live ur life according to ur parents........try once....