confused.!!!!!

12 years ago

my name is pavanishika n i'mm dng my B-tech final year..! hm i saw a person came for a demo. he just gave a demo to us. i was impressed by his speech n asked some questions related to the topic he taught. i contacted him through his mail-id. he responded to me. within some months i dont know what happened bt i was unable to spend days widout talking to him. i told him that i fell in love with a person. i indirectly told him the matter. he was unable to understand. he advised me to tell him directly. so i told him dat i loved him. he did not reject me or accept me. he just said that he dont want to get committed for 6 years. then my sister got to know abt this because i was ill for 2 days. she mailed him about me telling dat i was ill. unfortunately in a social network i added him into my family group. he is angry with me now. what am i supposed to do? he is not responding to any of my msgs or mails. do he love me r not?

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  • 12 years ago

    According to what you told me, it seems to appear that he doesn't love you. If you tell a man you love him and he doesn't answer, it's another way of meaning he's not interested. The guy said he doesn't want to be committed for 6 years- that means he must not be ready for a committment yet. A woman has to respect a man's thoughts and feelings without rushing him into a relationship which might not be what you expect. The man might have been heartbroken from a past relationship, the reason why he's not ready to jump the broom. Leave him be and go on with your life. If not, give him time and space- even if it is six years or so. At that time, you might think about it and decide to stop wasting time on (the one who got away.)

  • 12 years ago

    I think it is best to define the love you have for him. I think you admire his qualities and so therefore you are developing strong feelings but it seems as if he was scared off because your sister got involve. If i were him i would feel pressured and turned off too ....because it seems that you are very sensitive, emotional and breakdown easily.

    He may not know how to deal with a situation like so.

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