im lost.............

ok look i went to a party it was really fum.! But i realized i didnt love my boyfriend anymore so i let him go and now i like another guy hes 2 years younger and my EX-boyfriend was my age. i asked this new guy out he said maybe............. but me and my bff know its a yes because he wanted to dance with me and he was really kind and he brought me a water bottle but i had to leave so i asked for something to remind me of him and he did so n ow i keep it forever. but now i just still loove my ex-boyfriend he was kind and fun. but then i realize he was such a jerk he never invited me to his house and he nevr invited me over to parties but sure he could invite his ex-girlfriend im only 11 but i know i dont know what love is YET.! i just want to know if i made a mistake or i made a great move.? and i find my self thinking about him but then i realize evrything and that he hardly kissed me in school or held my hand he never hugged me i knew he was ashamed and i wont go back to him because i dont believe in second chances.! and thats another thing he made mistakes and i gave ALOT of chances my friends say i should not have broken up with him i say SO WHAT it is what it is.
! every one says FOLLOW YOUR HEART but i cant because its always indesisive of what other people with think and what will be the consequences and what ill regret doing later on. can you help me PLEASE.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I REALLY NEED IT.! =(