need u'r advice, wat step 2 b taken n wat not

we were in love from last 3-years, its a long tym, there were matches coming 2 her, i said its tym to inform our parents now, she's is not dare enough 2 do so, i asked her either 2 inform her parents otherelse forget me n I ignored her calls n mails from then, right now she's out of station due to her job training, we r not in contact from past 100-days, advice me how n wat 2 do?