help needed desperately

14 years ago

hi.. this is my story..please do give me some gud advice....
i met a girl 7 months back.. we talked for some time and we became very gud frns... we shared evrythng in our life.. we talked abt all the things.... after few days i proposed her... she said no but she said she can remain friends with me.... we remained so for sometime....
but after few days just to make her feel jealous i said to her that i was in relationship with a girl... i told evryone.. all my frns and relatives..... but after a few days i felt bad so i told her the truth... and now she says she hates me cuz i lied to her... she doesnt talks to me.. she didnt even wish me on my bday... she says she hates but i love her.. evrythng i did.. was just to gain her love for me... i even tried committing suicide.. but i failed.. i dunno what do i do.. plz help me.

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  • 14 years ago

    First things first.. I feel sorry to hear that you attempted suicide just because you thought you were about to loose a girl whom you met just 7 month back.. I could you even possibly think about such stupid act?? My dear friend life isn't simple enough to be wasted on silly issues..

    Now about the situation you are in, you said you've proposed to her, you even told her the truth about your false relationship, which i think was brave and righteous. If she still ignores you just understand that she is the looser here.

    I suggest you move on. Please don't even think about suicide... There is someone much much better waiting for you. Go find her and live life to the fullest.

  • 14 years ago

    commit suicide for a gal??? didn't u think abt your parents, relatives and frnds??? you're an idiot. if she hates u, let her go, she s not the last gal on earth.

  • 14 years ago

    if she doesnt love you,its only her lose that she is now loosing a guy who loves her like anything..But u just lost a gal who doesnt have any love on u! so just dont worry! nd to commit suicide for a gal,even not ur lover is really a stupidity dear frnd!! so plz dnt. You ill find a better gal who loves u more than anything!! wait for her.

  • 14 years ago

    Okay well you need to tell her how you truely feel, and tell her you know hwat you did is bad/wrong and your sorry.
    Bring her flowers or somethingg..
    Try intill she says YES never i MEAN never give it up. Love is hard to find, and we lose each other for such retared reasons and please understand where i am coming at cuz i am a girl(:

  • 14 years ago

    see dear good thing wht you can do is just write a letter and give it to her and say sorry to her. show her how much you love her, prove it to her.. then it wil work she be yours.. on this earth love is a thing whic no1 can resist she wil fall 4 you just wait. but thats true gals hate liars.. tel the truth with some proof. i hope it workss... take care. sucide is last when you end up not being where you wnt to be.

  • 14 years ago

    hiiii,
    You didn't said ur name. but ur story is a little bit similar to me. First of all i will say u that din't try to do a suicide, because if she comes to know that u have tried to attempt suicide,then she will get more angry. I can feel that this time is very difficult for u. I am not sure abt she loves u or not, but as a girl i can surely say that there is a soft corner in hert for u and she really feels for u. I think she got angry Because u lied to her and she got very hert for that. when u said her that u were in a relation with another girl , at that time of period she really missed u, she realised that she feels for u. I think she is not able to accept that the person for whom she she have a soft feeling and whom she loves , just lied to her.So u have to give her some time to accept . Keep trying to make her understand that how much u love her, how much u care for her. she is not a girl who will come and express her feelings. U have to go to her and keep

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