Appearance What do we need to look like?

How do you get a guy to like you? Referring to appearance Shape attitudes acts and so many other things that u can perfect. Also counting the thing which u cannot perfect but improve. How u act around them. Topics to talk about, how to find if u have thing in common. Well i gotta say we do have something in common we both love sports. SO WHAT IS THERE TO TALK ABOUT!!!!